You may like a guy
a lot, but how do
you get him to ask
you out? Find out
how to get a guy to
ask you out using
these really sneaky
and smart ways.
There are many ways to ask a guy out.
But to ensure that it works on a guy, you have to
remember to never make it obvious that you have a
huge crush on him.
Let a guy know that you’re interested in him.
But don’t let him know you need him. Not at least until
he starts reciprocating your move.
A guy may want to ask you out, but when he realizes
that you like him a lot more than he likes you, he’d start
to take it easy just to see what you’d do about it.
And that’s something you should never forget.
How to get a guy to ask you out
There are two things a girl has to do to wow a guy and
get him to ask her out.
You have to drop a few signs.
And you have to become desirable in his eyes.
The little signs that matter
Drop a few signs so he starts to look at you as a dating
Sometimes, a guy may assume you’d never be
interested in being anything more than friends with
To help him see the dating side in you, here are a few
tips you could use.
#1 Get your friend to call you both a couple
When you’re having a fun chat with the guy you like,
ask a trusted girl friend to join both of you in the
conversation. It would be preferable if there are other
friends around too. And out of the blue, let your trusted
friend comment to no one in particular in the group and
say something like, “these two make a cute couple,
It’s an awkward statement, and one that’ll definitely
lead to a few laughs around the group. But all said and
done, no matter how embarrassed you pretend to be or
how he behaves, the thought will still linger in his head.
#2 Using a friend to tease him
Now don’t use all these strategies all the time. Just
use a few that you’re comfortable with.
The next time you’re having a conversation with this
guy, tell your friend beforehand to butt into the
conversation. Ask your friend to tell the guy that it’s so
obvious he likes you, and ask him when he’s ever going
work up his courage to ask you out?! Of course, she has
to make it seem like a joke, and yet, pose it as a
It’s straightforward and easy, and yet, you didn’t really
ask him out yourself. If he does like you, he’ll use this
opportunity to ask you out himself.
#3 Invite him to join you
If you’ve made any plans with your friends for the
weekend, casually bring the subject up when you’re
hanging out with him and invite him to come out with
all of you. Tell him it’ll be fun to hang out together and
check out a new place. It’s nowhere close to a proposal,
but it’s still a step closer to making him like you.
#4 Weekend plans
Ask him what he does over the weekend. And when he
does tell you what he does on the weekend, fake a
happy surprise and tell him you like doing that too! If
you’re not sure of his weekend activity, you could just
tell him that you’ve always wanted to try that.
This only works if both of you share a few common
interests. You obviously can’t stretch a lie here, so be
careful when it comes to sharing activities over the
If he is interested in you, he may invite you to join him
on his weekend activity. And who knows, it may just
lead to something more romantic.
#5 Let him know your routine
If a guy has to ask you out, he has to miss you now and
then. Do you live nearby? Then this would be the perfect
way to get to spend more together time with him.
During one of your conversations, let him know what
you do every evening after work or college, especially if
you have a neighborhood café where you like relaxing
after the regular 9 to 5, or hit a particular gym every
If he lives nearby, there’s a good chance he may have
some time on his hands and he may even look forward
to spending time with you. If you drop a hint and let
him know about your routine, he may even end up
bumping into you on a regular basis. And almost all the
time, love emerges with more together time, doesn’t
#6 Get him to drive you nearby
Stepping out of office to run an errand after work? Try
bumping into him on your way out and ask him to come
along with you or drive you nearby to help you out. And
after finishing up your errand, ask him out for coffee.
Insist and tell him it’s the least you can do for helping
you out. And once you’re out there on a *date* with
him, make him see your good side and be awed by you.
#7 Play the damsel in distress
Ask him for help. This is a trick that always works. Guys
just can’t help themselves when a pretty girl asks for a
bit of help. Ask him if he can fix your wooden window
panels or some other thing you can think of. If he does
like you back, he’ll use any excuse to be with you. And
after he’s done helping you, thank him with your
sweetest smile and reward him with coffee or a
#8 Fake sickness and look sexy!
This is a dirty move, but hey, if it’s a great way to get
him into your place, what’s wrong with it, right? When
you’re in a conversation with him at the end of the day
or when you’re out with him, pretend like you have a
terrible headache or use the evergreen stomach cramp
He’ll ask you if you need help getting home, and of
course, you should indulge his request. And once he
takes you home, invite him in and change into your
cute-n-revealing pj’s and let him see how beautiful you
look. Don’t wear anything sexy or he’ll just call your
bluff! He can hang out a while and leave after a
conversation to give you company.
#9 Let him know you’re looking out
Let him know that you’re looking out and ready for a
relationship. Once you’ve warmed him up with lots of
together time and happy conversations, if there’s ever
a chance of being together, he should know that you’re
available for him if he musters the courage to ask you
Most of the time, a guy may like you too, but may be
scared to pop the question. By dropping a few hints
about waiting to meet the one and flaunting your single
status at the same time, he may eventually work his
courage up to ask you out.
Getting a guy to ask you out
These are all great ways to build more intimacy and
create a stronger relationship between both of you. But
you have to remember that you also need to constantly
create the right sexual tension between the both of you
so either of you don’t fall into the dreaded friend zone.